Something about babies (which i couldn't seem to get over it somehow )

This is what i learned from the conversations between Jaime and Tyrion when i watched Game of Thrones...

Jamie: "Even if the boy live, he'll be cripple, a grotesque, give me a good clean death any day..."
 
Tyrion: "Speaking for the grotesque, i'd have to disagree. Death is so final, whereas life... Ah, life is full of possibilities."




So i remembered to be having this little arguments among my classsmates a few weeks earlier. It's all started like this, my lecturer gave us one situation to discuss about, i can't remember much but it was something like, if you were pregnant but you are not married (single parent), how would you handle it?


And then there are some them actually thought that the baby shouldn't be born into this world.. I was like, what on earth...



I mean, yes surely you can have your own opinions and i have absolutely no right to judge you but again...  


Think about it, who's fault it is that the baby came into this world, yours or his?  and then with your own words, you said he didn't deserved to live because in your own imaginations and fantasy you think all they are about going through in his future are only despairs and unfortunate events. You imagined them being miserable forever. So you decided he will not love the world and that, he shouldn't come.


But you and i knew it's not true. This is just a cover up excuses made for you so you would feel better if you aborted the baby. 
 

Well, if you confessed that having this little baby will ruin your future and that's the reason you choose to abort it, i might use some empathy BUT PLEASE DON'T TELL ME THAT THE BABY DIDN'T DESERVED TO LIVE BECAUSE HE WILL ONLY FEEL FRUSTRATION AND MISERABLE.


"Mama always said life was like a box of chocolates. You never know what you're gonna get.", famous quote from the movie "Forrest Gump", and ya, life is full of possibilities, even he is to be an orphan baby...



* The term "you" is directed to those who have the same thought as above statements. I am not referring to any specific personnel here.